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I have a few Tips I have learned through my own experiences.
1 A marriage is for real. Taking the ups and downs.
2 There are 2 of you in the marriage with 2 different human identities and personalities. Respect yourself and your partners.
3 Talk about any problems that might arise once a week for 25-30 mins.
4 Give each other time to grow and appreciate yourself, and your spouse, or partner by giving each other space. This will mean Trusting each other as well.
5 Let your partner know that you appreciate their point a view on certain topics and Let them know you understand what they are talking about with a gentle nod as reassurance that they are heard.
6 If you have an argument try and come up with a solution to the problem as soon as possible or just go make a cuppa and get back to a solution to the problem. Or come back to the problem another time.
7 Say sorry and mean it, when you think things are getting too much out of hand. Wait for a response.
8 If you feel like nothings going forward and that its hopeless, look at what you appreciate about your spouse or partners values, and personality.
9 When was the last time you did something nice for them. Example I cooked dinner.
10 Go for time alone together once a week could be a walk or a Movie.
11 Remember to always put your best foot forward in your relationship.
12 Be aware of what is happening in your marriage or relationship, and examine where you are both at.
13 Don’t Worry, If things aren’t going right. It Won’t Get You No Where But Only Make You Sick. Think On The Bright Side.
14 Are you Happy with you and your partners agreements with the plans and commitments you have worked out together.
15 Are you able to enjoy your own company and know that you can keep in contact at anytime, When you decide to take a holiday break from each other.
16 Are you able to Love, Respect, Admire and be Thankful for your partners Personality and Character. And what they give back to the relationship.
17 Are you able to say Sorry when you have done wrong and really mean it When you really feel like saying Sorry.
Those of you who are in Relationships who need some tips on how to keep the Flame Burning. I have been able to do some research in this area and have been able to pick up a few tips from a couple of Online Relationship Groups and a few e-books that I have read. These Tips are for Women and Men.
1 Seek help early. This could be Family member or Friend someone you trust.
2 Sex cannot make up for Lousy Communication.
3 You want a Healthy Marriage Work together on it, even if you are the one to start making it happen, just do it.
4 Pursue Intimacy : Not pursuing Intimacy it becomes Lousy.
5 Build a Good Friendship : Make the time to have Fun together.
6 You don’t have to do all to have a great Marriage.
7 Sex is not the only indicator of a healthy Marriage.
8 Boundaries have a Purpose.
9 Recognize your Spouse isn’t so bad as you think he or she is.
10 Ask your Spouse if he or she is willing to change.
11 Accept the fact that he or she may not be willing to change.
12 Set boundaries if possible.
13 Go to a Counsellor If you want to.
14 Make the best possible life within the context of what you can’t change.
15 Dwell on the good of your Spouse.
16 Be Thankful
17 Touchy topics express needs and concerns respectfully without criticizing or blaming your partner.
18 Soften your startup. Bring up problems gently and without blame works much better, which is more better, allows couples to calmly engage in conflict.
19 Accept influence from your partner.
20 Have High standards: Happy Couples have High standards for each other.
21 Learn to repair and exit the argument, before the argument gets completely out of control.
22 Using humor, Offering a caring remark ( I understand that this is hard for you.) We will solve this problem together, backing down to win. Offering signs of oppression for your partner and their feelings along the way. If the argument gets too heated take a 20 min break, and agree to approach the topic again when you are both calm.
23 Focus On The Positives: A happy couple will say we laugh a lot. Instead of we never have any Fun. A good marriage must have a rich climate of positivity. Make regular deposits to your emotional banks.
Well Peeps this is all that I have written from my own notes, I hope this will help you, Want any other tips let me know, you can email me at [email protected]
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